A Shift Has Occurred

Before my husband's accident, we had grand plans to travel the world. We were going to take our kids with us and build lasting memories together. Unfortunately, this cannot happen now; travel is just too difficult. I had to let go of it, having to accept that he would not be able to travel with me. Sometimes, we hold on so tightly to how we think life should be while, in reality, life cannot be controlled. We can make plans all we want, but life can sidetrack us in the blink of an eye. This is why I practice day in and day out to accept what is and not hold on with sadness and grief but rather create the life I want to have.

I never thought that I would be traveling without Rick, but travel was a plan I had made, and I have been blessed with the ability to do it. This left me at a crossroads: either I could throw in the towel, or I could make it happen. I could curl up in a ball and feel bad for myself, or I could dust off my suitcase and go and make my plan a reality. Ultimately, I decided to do what I have been able to and got to travel to France. This has truly been a step forward in my journey toward healing and self-care.

The main lesson I took from this experience is simple: when plans shift because life gets in the way, find another way to fill up your cup, and remember to always do what you love.

Au Revoir!

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